When you are balancing your checkbook or looking through your online bank statements do you often wonder just where the money has gone? Have you tried budgeting before only to forget about writing down your purchases? If you’ve tried to create and follow a budget only to give up after a few weeks, it means you just haven’t found the right method. Everyone is different, so the key isn’t following the newest or most popular financial management method, it’s finding the strategy that works for you and your lifestyle. Here are tips for making a budget you’ll actually follow.

Record-Keeping Method
While it seems like nearly every part of life has moved from physical analog record-keeping to a digital version, there are still many people who prefer a pen and paper over an app. If you’ve tried several different budgeting software programs or apps and given up, start using a traditional hand-written method instead. Balancing a checkbook, keeping a ledger, or writing down your purchases in a dedicated notebook may be the key to feeling connected to your budget. If you prefer a physical record of spending, you could incorporate other physical aspects, such as paying with cash.
If, on the other hand, you prefer a digital record keeping method, find a software program, online site or app that you like. Use the program to make and track your budget and take advantage of the built-in tools. Some programs can break your spending into percentages based on categories or remind you to transfer some money into savings. If you prefer using an “envelope system” to ensure you stick to your budget, there are digital versions as well that don’t require you to actually carry cash.
Non-Essential Spending
For most people, the category where spending always tends to get out of hand is non-essential spending. Whether it’s impulse purchases, eating out or simply overspending on clothes or entertainment, it’s the area that most often doesn’t stick to the budgeting rules. Self-control is an important part of not overspending, but budgeting properly can also help. If you try to write a budget without any room for non-essential spending, it’s a much bigger deal when you spend on something outside the budget. If you budget (and stick to) a certain amount for non-essentials, impulse buys aren’t such a big deal.
Essential Spending
It’s vital to budget for essential expenses, such as mortgage or rent payments, food, utilities and insurance. While these costs will remain relatively constant every month, you can take some steps to reduce these expenses. Consider whether or not refinancing your mortgage would be a good option. Talk to a local agent to see if you can find a better deal on auto insurance in Seattle than you have now. You can even sometimes save money by switching cable, cell phone or internet providers.
Many people find it a challenge to set a realistic budget and then stick to it. However, there are some things you can do to help keep your personal finances secure. It’s good to find a record-keeping system that works for you, whether analog or digital. You can also try to reduce your essential spending and leave room in your budget for non-essentials so you have more control on your spending every month.